He couldn’t tell me much about Tx. He never talks about his kid’s Cow Christmas Reindeer Christmas Lights shirt. He always has some weird story about his pay or is in need of something. I know better though because I have plenty of families that have been in the military, so the stories he tells are very obvious lies. I knew pretty quickly he was scamming. Just my contribution to taking up his time so he doesn’t scam too many people. So, if you run into a Billy Giles, who is supposedly in the Army, run fast and far away. Rather than getting upset about a situation and increasing further your sense of impatience, “it is what it is” simply means to accept what has happened since the situation was beyond your control. Then immediately move on. Frustration is the beginning of wisdom. Wisdom is an elevated state-of-mind which means that you have the ability to avoid future problems from happening.
To gain an understanding of oneself is to ultimately learn more about how you fit into the world at large. Thus; improving your quality of life. Thanks to my youth traveling from home in a rough part of Liverpool to another rough part of Liverpool in a grammar school uniform I learned to box. This is a boxing move learned early on in training in which one moves the body away from the punch to lessen its impact when it is impossible to block with the fists or dodge the blow. The blow is taken but it does not affect the fighter and his ability to counterattack as much as if he hadn’t rolled. Pretty much what it sounds like: a wheel or roller is rolling and at the same time moving over a surface, but due to insufficient friction there’s slippage, so the point on the wheel contacting the surface is not moving at the same speed as the point on the surface it’s in contact with. But coming from my experience and being a female who was also always questioning everything, doing my own investigation on the smallest simplest stupid stuff, never trusted and never planned on it either, I’d say don’t run and if she’s truly worth it, show her that she can trust you.